When I was a little girl, and we got the Daily News on Sundays, I always used to notice the bits in the classified where people wished their loved ones a "Happy Birthday In Heaven".
I don't know if there's an afterlife, but if there is, I hope that someone is there to make you a chocolate birthday cake and that there's full fat ice cream on the side and that you get to eat as much of it as you want.
I hope there's candles for you to blow out, someone who loves you to sing "Happy Birthday", and a chance for you to clown around and say "Unaccustomed as I am to public speaking...."
I love you, Daddy. I miss you.